Check list

Go places
Road trip across Washington
Soap Lake
East Coast
Road trip across the U.S.
Tour the South
Bali
Disneyland / Take M to Disneyland for his first time
Take M to waterpark for his first time
Take M to tropical beach for his first time
Bed and breakfast
Canada, but for real
Italy
India
New York
London
Paris
The Wizarding World of Harry Potter
Stay in an over-water bungalow
Go back to the Fairmont Orchid on an anniversary
Great Wolf Lodge
Spend an anniversary where we got married
Treehouse
The Grand Canyon

Loving things
Proposal
Plan my own wedding
Marriage
Lovely honeymoon
Have a growing, loving, satisfying marriage
Get pregnant
Have a kid or two
Sing to that person I like a lot

Important things I want to have/own
House
Car, without payments
Good Eats: All seasons
Antique vanity
Chaise lounge
Antique sideboard
Cat
Chickens
Goat
Ducks
Alpaca
Cow
Dog
DSLR

Personal and Meaningful
Go to therapy for at least a year
Have a room to myself
Penpal
Camp Victory
Feed the homeless
Go on a mission trip
Find my spirituality, not just choose it
Self defense class
Boudoir photos
Host Christmas
Participate in sexual education in some way
Get back into habitual yoga
Hot yoga
Heal my tendonitis
Chiropractor regularly for a year
Try acupuncture
Rites of passage
Spend a weekend in silence and solitude
Ashram
Meditate daily for 1 month, 2 months, 3 months
Massage
Birth doula
Childbirth educator
Feel like I made a significant difference in someone's life
Listen, completely
Have a room to create
Have a library
Actually get rid of books
Keep a journal for a year
Experience death
Experience grief
Experience birth
Live alone
Write a cookbook

Enjoy
Raise baby chicks
Hen led chick hatching
Stop buying eggs, rely only on backyard chickens
Throw a surprise party successfully
Hot air balloon Again, with M
Parasail
Zip-lining
White water rafting
Ride horses on a beach
Ride horses on a mountain
Ride horses through the desert
Watch husband ride a horse for the first time
Send care package to someone I love
Watch the sunrise on my birthday
Go snorkeling without thinking about sharks constantly
Horse drawn carriage ride with M
Bite of Seattle
Drive in movie
Outdoor movie
Movie on our lawn
Have a pen pal
Go on a trip with just Candace
Paint, light, and set off wish lanterns with friends/family
Apple picking for real
Write a holiday newsletter
Make our holiday cards
See CATS: The Musical

Hobbies, Art and Learning
Learn to knit
Knit a scarf
Learn to crochet
Crochet a scarf
Finish a yarn work blanket (3/4 of the way there!)
Needle felt
Participate in Peace Felt
Make income from photography
Photography class
Build a headboard
Gallery
Pottery class
Tattoo
Learn an instrument fully
Glassblowing
Kickbox
Sing on stage
Perform music on stage
Book club
Have "day in life" style photo session done
Needle point
Loom
Build something with wood from scratch
Soap-making
Candle-making
Sew for real
Grow fruit to eat: Tomatoes, pumpkins, apples, berries
Grow veggies to eat: Broccoli, onions, garlic, potatoes, kale, chard, spinach, carrots, lettuce, peas
Herb garden
Dehydrate my own herbs
Design my kitchen
Compost
Use compost as fertilizer
Build a fire pit
Learn how to use a charcoal grill for real
Learn another language
Learn Spanish

Kitchen
Marshmallows
Caramel sauce
Biscotti
Creme brulee
Tiramisu
Pulled pork
30 days of real food
Primal challenge
Bake bread
Sourdough starter
Attempt yogurt, attempt again, succeed in making yogurt
Pickles
Apple butter
Butter from cream
Roast a turkey for Thanksgiving
Brine a turkey for Thanksgiving
Jerky
Dehydrated fruit
Eat an animal we've raised
Learn how to can for real
Buy a shared cow for consumption for 1 year, 2 years, 3 years
Participate in a CSA for 1 year, 2 years, 3 years, 4 years
Croissants
Cure a cast iron

Document
Engagement photos
Wedding photos
Newlywed photos
Milestone anniversary photos
Photos with pets
Day in life photos
Boudoir photos
Pregnancy photos
Birth photos
Newborn photos
Engagement album
Wedding album

Make and use primarily our own
Dishwasher detergent
Laundry detergent
Cleaning supplies
Face wash
Shampoo
Deodorant
Exfoliant
Toothpaste
Moisturizer
Toner

Kids
Home birth without interventions
Have a midwife
Have a doula
Have a birth photographer
or Adopt
Homeschool
Baby led weaning
Elimination communication
Donate breast milk
Co-sleep
Attachment parenting
Raise badass kids